Within the past week we have lost two of our male friends from our Webb Chapel family.
One was expected because he had been ill for some time after a stroke. It didn't make it any easier for his sweet wife of over 50 years, but she knew it was coming and spent his last days with him constantly.
The other man was at Wednesday night bible class last night. This morning he was sitting in his chair waiting for his wife to cook their breakfast. When she went to get him to eat he was slumped over in his chair having had a massive stroke. She called 911 and he was taken to the hospital. We went to the hospital to be with her and check on his condition. He died at 12:00 noon, never regaining conscious.
It made me think again how we can be here one minute and gone in the blink of an eye. This couple had only been at Webb Chapel for approximately 3 years, but as they usually sat in front of us we had gotten to know both of them fairly well. Then last year she taught our ladies' class and did a super job. He was actually a retired minister and he led the most beautiful prayers in our church services. I was able to get to know Joyce through ladies' class. We are on the same visitation team and I have really enjoyed spending time with her. They have two daughters and a son. One daughter is in Hawaii and the son is on his way here from Tennessee. What a shock this must be for them and what a sad trip home. They have always been a very close family and I feel for them as they go through the next few days and weeks.
At our grand daughter's baby shower given by ladies from our church last Sunday, we were all given little notes to write our advice to Amy, who lives in Pennsylvania. The hostess put together a beautiful book to mail to Amy with pictures and momentos from the shower. I was looking through the book and read all the little notes of advice. In almost every instance the women at the shower wrote to spend time and love this baby, let the housework go, have date nights with her husband, etc. This is advice all of us can take when it comes to our family and friends. As has been demonstrated so harshly this morning, you never know when it will be the last time you have an opportunity to do that.
Just my thoughts as we have now returned from the hospital leaving the family with so many necessary details to work out and little time to mourn. If you read this please include them in your prayers.
